If I had learned anything from 23 years of surviving small bowel obstructions, it was to always have a hospital bag at the ready. And just as a pregnant couple have a dialogue prepared for “when it is time” to go to the hospital or call the midwife, Bruce and I had an unnecessary-to-speak dialogue prepared for when it was time to rush me to the Emergency Room. He could tell by my coloring or other tell-tale signs that this obstruction wasn’t likely to resolve itself. I would need medical and possibly surgical intervention. He would grab the bag as I said my silent “goodbye” to my home, praying I would return.
Fortunately, thanks to Lily, my ileostomy, my life has changed dramatically, and I have not had a need for that hospital bag for 6 years. However, as the reality of the threat of hospitalization due to Covid 19 is increasing, this morning, I packed my hospital bag for what we all hope will never happen.
Since we have no idea who is or is not immune to the virus, we have to assume we all are vulnerable. Most will ride out the symptoms at home, and many may not even be aware they have or are carrying the disease. But for those of us who will need acute medical attention, having packed necessities can be very comforting. Ostomates have additional needs, and rather than worry about already stretched hospital staff finding supplies for us, I recommend packing three weeks of supplies in our bag. I recognize that not everyone has extra supplies, but if there was ever a time when accessing extras is indicated and if possible to obtain, this is the time…peace of mind goes a very long way in feeling prepared.
My bag is brightly colored and easy to spot for Bruce. It has toiletries, including toothbrush, toothpaste and mouthwash, deodorant, razor, etc., as well as underwear. Additionally, and most importantly, I have my three weeks of ostomy supplies packed. I have a high-output pouch, so it is important I provide my own. I have tried to make things as easy for any nurse that would have my care since he or she has so many other demands. I am not adding anything else, such as reading materials, etc., because who knows what lives on them. I will, however, grab my phone and identification/insurance cards. As you may note, I am very rational and sane as I write this…I am not struggling to breathe and can think through what needs to be done. In truth, I know that may not be the case if breathing becomes labored and fear sets in…all the more reason to do this now!
I recommend each and every person have a plan in place for what he or she will do if illness takes over. The plan does not have to be extensive, but walking through it in your mind may really make the difference between panic and logical thinking. Like in an airplane, “in the unlikely event…” My hope is that our bag remains unused, those supplies return to their place in our closets, and we look back and breathe a huge sigh of relief!
As always inspirational words for many. I pray all is well in NJ and we see each other when this awful virus is contained. My love to you and Bruce and so far all is well down here.
Ellyn, you are a remarkable woman. You offer inspiration and good advice to those who don’t know where to turn. As an aside, I am not an osteomate, but since I could be one of the chosen to get the virus, I will pack a bag!